Thursday, February 26, 2015

He Who Sings Scares Away His Woes

Today.........

Have you listened to any music?  Have you sung a song or hummed a tune? You really should....

I didn't post a blog last Thursday....

You were on my mind, dear reader....but I had a MAJOR performance.....my first BIG SINGING GIG in a VERY LONG TIME.....I got to sing with THE MOST AMAZING TENOR  EVER....No....not Placido Domingo.....but Bill Junker.....You haven't heard of him?

Bill Junker is the man who taught me to sing through life!
He's my dad....now 91 years of age....and he can still sing!

I don't remember much about my childhood....do you?

I do remember that my dad was always singing....He often sang hymns....and to this day I don't know how he knew them....he sang Protestant hymns like How Great Thou Art and Just a Closer Walk with Thee. We didn't sing those at Mass on Sundays.....

He sang Show Tunes....like....You'll Never Walk Alone  and Climb Every Mountain.....

There were 8 children in my family....it was always noisy....and music seemed to be coming from some corner of the house throughout the day....Everyone played at least one instrument....During the 60's all of the kids and my parents would often gather in our LARGE living room to have a hootenanny.....Does anyone even know what that word means today?????



Instead of watching TV or playing video games....we sat together and sang--accompanied by the elder sisters on piano, guitar, banjo, and ukelele.....folk songs, mostly....

Singing was a usual form of expression and communication for me....doesn't everyone sing....every day....all the time????

It is COMPLETELY normal for me to burst into song in the middle of a sentence....Some of my colleagues in the ministry have deemed me The Singing Preacher.....not because I sing a song before I preach (like most NORMAL preachers who sing)....I burst into songs as I preach....

Music is a form of praise......God likes us to sing to Him....and to sing about Him....Psalm 69:30 says I will praise the name of God with a song.....

I have sung myself through life....Singing praise to God.....and singing the songs of life.....

Songs of life....I sang songs to put my kids to bed, to wake them, to ride in the car....I wrote songs for them to memorize Scriptures....I even wrote a song for one of them to memorize the Preamble to the Constitution!

Music made learning easier....
It made dealing with the problems of life easier too........when I have needed to "buck up"  and deal with difficulties, I have often found myself singing songs in the shower that I learned from my dad.....

You'll Never Walk Alone (From Carousel)
When you walk through a storm, hold your head up high
And don't be afraid of the dark.
At the end of the storm is a golden sky, and the sweet silver song of a lark.
Walk on through the wind, walk on through the rain
Though your dreams be tossed and blown.
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart
And you'll never walk alone
You'll never walk alone.

I've burst into tears more than once while singing "You'll Never Walk Alone"......but it always encourages me....that God is with me and I will make it through whatever storm I may be facing....

When I was facing insurmountable odds....I would sing Climb Every Mountain from the Sound of Music....It would inspire me to push forward....keep moving....don't stop...don't look back.... Here's a clip of my dad and me singing that very song last week at the Care Facility....(I only wish I could've sung those high notes more pianissimo.....I'm out of practice!)




There are lots of psychological studies that prove the power of music....it affects your mind...your emotions....your soul......

I encourage you, dear reader....to sing!!!!  Sing songs of praise to God....and sing the songs of life!!

Your emotions will calm, you soul will be encouraged, and your mind will be sharpened!

Music will empower and embolden you to do things that you never thought you could do!

Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra said, “He who sings scares away his woes.”  

I concur. 










Thursday, February 12, 2015

This Valentine's Day....Just do it!

Today......

So....what are you doing for Valentine's Day?  If you are single, you may think this blog isn't for you....but take heart....I haven't forgotten what it's like.....

Been there......February 14 without that special someone to flatter, flirt and focus on you alone!

All your married friends are planning dinners, surprises, and "nights away" (you know what that means!) but you..... you're looking forward to getting your dog groomed (with the red bows, of course) for the holiday!

Your employees and co-workers are asking to take the day off or to be released a little early so they can surprise their loved one....you, of course, can cover for them..because....well....YOU certainly don't have any plans!

Yep....been there.....How do you deal with all that mushy gushy stuff when you don't have anyone to mush and gush over?

I read that Valentine's Day is one of the most popular holidays in America....62% of Americans celebrate it....and they spend an average of $130/person on it.....hmmmm....



Singles aren't alone in their dismay with Valentine's Day.....Married folk can also be less than enthralled with the "holiday"......If you are married to a romantically challenged spouse....you may have expectations set that he/she will never attain.....

Do you know what I mean, wife?  You expect roses, jewelry (or lingerie), a candle lit dinner, and words reminiscent of Cyrano De Bergerac written in a card along with deep and soul stirring conversation.....

Instead......you get a box of ammo.....and an evening of John Wayne movies!




I couldn't find any stats on how many couples get in arguments on Valentine's Day because of unmet expectations......Anyone care to comment out there????  :-)

So.....I guess I'd better figure out what I will do to express my undying love to the Amazing Mr. Brintnall.....

He likes boats........ Not in the budget this year.....

And dogs....I'm not ready for the commitment....

And power tools.....I think he has them all.....

The Amazing Mr. Brintnall may have to deal with some unmet expectations......unless I figure something out pretty fast......

Whether single, in a relationship, or married......

YOU CAN HAVE THE BEST VALENTINE'S DAY EVER THIS YEAR!!!!!  Here's how.....

Make the main thing the main thing.......Instead of LOOKING for expressions of LOVE from someone else....why not just DO IT?

Just....do.....love! (Dear reader, you'd better not be thinking what I think you're thinking.....)

I mean LOVE....REAL LOVE.....

LOVE is much bigger than a Hallmark card, a bouquet of roses, a box of chocolates, or EVEN a piece of jewelry! REAL LOVE is more than sexual attraction or flowery words..........

Love is patient.
Love is kind.
Love does not envy.
Love does not boast.
Love is not proud.
Love is not rude.
Love is not self-seeking.
Love is not easily angered.
Love keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil.
Love rejoices with the truth.
Love always protects.
Love always trusts.
Love always hopes.
Love always perseveres.
Love never fails.

Doing that should keep you busy enough....so that you won't be bothered by the delivery to your co-worker of the 6 foot teddy bear at the office.....
.....or the requests to cover work responsibilities that day
....or the gift that you wanted.....but didn't get!

My mother always told me that if I kept myself busy taking care of myself....I wouldn't have time to be bothered by what anyone else was doing.....

I'm gonna keep myself busy.....DOING LOVE....and I'm starting to like the idea of a box of ammo and John Wayne movies.....

Be happy on purpose!

I'll blog you next week....in the meantime...do something TODAY to fulfill your purpose.  If you enjoyed this blog....please share it!

















Thursday, February 5, 2015

My Odd Life-God's amazing pre-vision in Round Rock, Texas!

Today....

I'm in Round Rock, Texas for a Ministerial Leadership Conference.....and I feel like I'm back home....

It's funny how things work out in life....how paths cross....how God directs....

Round Rock, Texas is a happening place these days....a few years ago it was the fastest growing city in America.  There is growth on every corner.....new houses, new restaurants, new stores.....

Twenty five years ago Round Rock, Texas looked like the opening scene on "Green Acres"(If you are too young to remember that show, see if there are recorded for posterity on YouTube....) Readers my age can sing the opening song with me...."Green Acres is the place to be.  Farm living is the life for me.  Land spreading out so far and wide, keep Manhattan, just give me that countryside!"

Hardly anyone had heard of Round Rock, Texas back in 1990....but I had!




Some very good friends of mine had moved from Tempe, AZ to Round Rock, TX with their three adorable children....and I had come to see their home while it was in the process of being built.....

I remember my dear friend describing what each room would be....how the kitchen would be laid out, where her office would be, which bedroom would be the girls' and which would be their son's......but I'm not too good at "seeing" things like that, so I still remember just nodding my head and smiling....."Oh, that's nice..."

Time went by.  They acclimated well as Texans.  Their kids were active in church, school, and athletics.  They got involved in their community....and  I was busy with life in the ministry....in Arizona.....then in Michigan....then in Arizona....then in Michigan...then in west Texas....

We would send occasional Christmas cards, birthday cards, and eventually wedding invitations to one another.....but, you know how things are.....people move on..... I didn't know if I would ever see them again......

It seemed so coincidental......so strange....... so odd......when....in 2008.....my pastor announced he was opening a church....in Round Rock (not Austin)....Round Rock, Texas!  


So....very....odd

I came to the church in Round Rock to sing a few times, and my friends, although they were committed to their own church, attended the service to support me....we reconnected....still....they had their busy lives and I had mine....

Then a crisis hit my life...... I had to pick up the pieces and move with my daughter.....
from west Texas......to Round Rock, Texas.....

I sent my friend a Facebook message....telling her I was moving to Round Rock in a crisis situation....she's too busy to be on Facebook often, so she didn't respond immediately....a day or so before my move, I called her....when she heard about my situation.....she knew what I meant about it being a crisis situation.....(You know, some people consider everything a crisis--this was legit!) 

She and her husband opened their home.....(and I hate to use cliches).....but..... they opened their hearts as well....to a newly single woman going through a monumental challenge and her daughter....who was being forced to move in the middle of her Senior year of high school.....

We spent our first night in Round Rock at that house that I had seen when it was only barely framed....some 20 years earlier!  It was a cold, wet January night when we pulled in...the night of the BCS College championship.....which I fully intended to watch....but out of sheer exhaustion, I fell asleep on the love seat in front of the blazing fire in the fireplace that welcomed us...

Those were difficult days.....very......very difficult....

I remember walking up their staircase one day after trying to decide where to send my daughter to finish her Senior year of high school....I had invested in a Christian education for her for 11 1/2 years....someone said, "Oh, it's just a few months...put her in the public school there..."  I visited the public school....she spent a morning there.....I....JUST....COULDN'T DO IT......there had already been too much upheaval, too much change, too......much......hurt.....

I climbed the stairs of my friend's house that day with extreme effort.... holding in the tears....the sobbing was about to erupt.....I dragged myself into one of those bedrooms my friend had pointed out to me over 20 years earlier...... knelt down.....and cried.....and prayed.....

When the moving truck came with all of my earthly belongings....it was my friends' daughter and son-in-law's missional group from Austin Stone Church that came to help....they spent the entire day helping us move in......they even built a fire in our fireplace for us!

I can't even begin to tell you how many times I have THANKED GOD for those young couples!!! 
Moving is stressful...the WORST day is the day the truck brings your stuff...they unload it so fast....and you have to figure out where to put those 350 boxes....along with all of your furniture, clothing, and yard tools!

No one else was there to help us that day....except my one brother who had flown in from Phoenix....and he had recently been injured....so he was basically there for moral support....and to order pizza!  :-) 

Thanksgiving......Christmas.....Birthdays......even my daughter's high school graduation....were all celebrated at that house that I had walked through over 20 years earlier....before it had really taken shape.....





These friends....are no longer friends.....THEY ARE FAMILY!

Who knew.......those twenty some years ago.....when they moved to Round Rock that my daughter and I would need a family......some support.....some encouragement.....some people of faith, hope, and love.....and we would need them in ROUND ROCK, TEXAS!?

God knew.

WOW.  I stand in awe and deep, deep gratitude.

God sees what is ahead of you.  He is the God of pre-vision....and the God of provision.

Remember the former things, those of long ago;
    I am God, and there is no other;
    I am God, and there is none like me.
10 I make known the end from the beginning,
    from ancient times, what is still to come.
I say, ‘My purpose will stand'.... Isaiah 46:9-10



Thank you, dear friends for being the hands and the heart of my Father God.

Thank you, dear God, for my dear, dear friends....and for moving them to Round Rock, Texas....those many years ago!

Trust God, dear reader.  Trust God.

I'll blog ya next week...in the meantime, do something today to fulfill your purpose.....

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